隔阂: misunderstanding, estrangement, (language etc) barrier...
遛: to stroll, to walk (an animal)...
带头人: leader...
耐: (bound form) to bear, to endure, to withstand...
不了了之: to settle a matter by leaving it unsettled, to end up with nothing definite...
风趣: charm, humor, wit, humorous, witty...
融合: a mixture, an amalgam, fusion, welding together, to be in harmony with (nature), to harmonize with, to fit in...
训: to teach, to train, to admonish, instruction (from superiors), teachings, rule...
好家伙: my God!, oh boy!, man!...
俘获: absorption of subatomic particle by an atom or nucleus)...